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The web site that validates the experience of bullying
Half the population are bullied ... most only realise it when they read this
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Constant criticism, nit-picking, threats, refuses to value, control freak, aggressive, denies everything, no empathy, charm, manipulation, intimidation? The workplace bully?
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Many people who are bullied out of their job end up working from home and doing something which is much more fulfilling, albeit financially precarious.
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Thinking of starting a business and want to work from home? There are many advantages
of being able to work at home ... freedom, choice, flexibility (especially with
childcare), the opportunity to do something you've always wanted to do, maybe no ceiling
on income, etc. Some disadvantages too ... no regular salary, no sick leave, no sick pay,
constant uncertainty, long hours, bookkeeping and accounts, tax, VAT, etc. Many well-known
businesses started work at home, often in the garage. Apple Computer and Hewlett Packard
both started life in a garage at home.
There are some major benefits though to working for yourself being able to work at home
- every penny or cent you earn is the result of your own efforts, which builds confidence
and esteem in a way no salaried position can. But perhaps the greatest benefit of a home
based business is that you no longer have to work for or report to an inadequate or
incompetent boss. Many people who leave their job because of bullying end up being
self-employed and working from home, either by choice or by circumstance. Although the
work is hard and the hours long, the satisfaction can be great. Many people who are
bullied out of their job end up working from home and doing something which is much more
fulfilling, albeit financially precarious.
If you've left the rat race because you've been bullied out - and this includes
redundancy, early retirement, ill-health retirement, burn out, constructive dismissal and
unfair dismissal - you may still be recovering from the injury to health caused by
prolonged negative stress which is the result of bullying and harassment. Recovery from an
abusive experience such as bullying can take years, although the recovery period can be
shortened by knowledge and insight. This is one of the purposes of Bully OnLine - to re-empower you with knowledge, insight and information.
Click here to see if an
unpleasant experience in your life was bullying. Injury to health from prolonged negative
stress is covered on the health
page and if the injury has resulted in trauma with PTSD symptoms, click here. If you were bullied and
harassed by one individual in particular, click here to see the profile of the serial bully. I estimate one
person in thirty is a serial bully with this profile.
Thank you to Tim Field for permission to use his article.
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